“It Is a Whole Different Life from the Life I Used to Live”: Assessing Parents’ Support Needs in Paediatric Palliative Care
Abstract
:1. Background
2. Objectives
3. Methods
3.1. Setting
3.2. Participants
3.3. Description of the Intervention
3.4. Recruitment and Data Collection
3.5. Data Analysis
4. Results
4.1. Participant Characteristics
4.2. Parents’ Feedback
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- Subtheme 1.1: Mental impact on parents and perceived gaps in support
I actually ended up, I had a major breakdown, about 18 months into this. My marriage had already broken down and there were issues at work, a stressful job. So, with this, with [child name] I think once we went through the process of him having the surgery, chemo, radiation, more chemo, when it was sort of getting to the end of that and I realised, “oh gosh” and I recognised the fact that I was falling into a deep hole despite having, you know, medication and gone to a psychologist.(P07-C)
So, there is none of that is, none of that care services are free [for parents]. You have to go and do it externally. But sometimes you even wonder if it actually would be helpful if it was done as part of the overall care for the child, because it’s really if the parents are not coping the child is not going to get what they need either.(P27-NC)
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- Subtheme 1.2: Feelings that parents come last
When it comes to the questions where you are getting time for yourself and looking after your own needs etcetera. Obviously, we don’t really get to do that because we are parents at the same time.(P4-NC)
Like at the moment I have absolutely no time for doing things for myself or socialising or anything. So, you know, there is just nothing. I tried to go out the other night and [child name] had a really bad night and I had to come home. And it was the first time in six months, I think, I am gone out. So, this was just, you know, it was a bit of a disaster. Yeah. It’s a bit disappointing.(P14-NC)
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- Subtheme 1.3: Frustration with inadequacies of external providers
So, I would say, no it hasn’t helped. But that has nothing to do with the survey. Because of outside providers I am struggling with. Because my thing is the whole transition… I am still fighting the same fights with the same people. And getting the same frustration.(P25-NC)
Sometimes a lack of understanding of the day-to-day needs that we have and it’s almost like it’s so much red tape you have to get through and it is almost like there is no common sense at the other end. You know, our child is in a wheelchair, we are having to lift him in, you know, we’ve hurt our backs doing it. So, frustration, you know, when it appears black and white to us.(P28-NC)
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- Subtheme 1.4: Care lacking a psychosocial focus and feelings of isolation
Yeah, big gaps in, I am going to say in care. Because the child gets medical support which is amazing. There is absolutely no fault there. but there is no guidance for parents, like, you know, especially in the early days of a diagnosis.(P27-NC)
Yeah, parent struggle because there is no one in your current circle to talk to. So, when you often become friends with other families in a similar situation which is great. But those families can’t really deal with your problems either because they’ve got their own. You don’t want to burden other family with your worries because they are feeling the same.(P30-NC)
You do need lots of hands on, lots of people to come in, you know, such as the OT, the social worker, the doctor, the nurse, whether it’s physio required as well. I think we just sort of find out various other things just by chance, sometimes by stumbling across something, or another parent, perhaps in the waiting room talking about a particular thing.(P10-C)
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- Subtheme 2.1: Straightforward form and approach, structured and comprehensive
This really ticks all the boxes that need to be discussed. Because, obviously sometimes you can only think of one thing or the first thing that is most pertinent to you, you and your family, and the person you are caring for and other things get forgotten.(P23-NC)
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- Subtheme 2.2: Improved communication
It was helpful because it did open up discussions with the team and highlighted some of the areas that I have been struggling with.(P14-NC)
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- Subtheme 2.3: Raised awareness on issues including the family unit
It highlighted the fact that I probably need to look at him going into respite care maybe once a month. And that is something I always not wanted to do up until now. But it probably highlighted the fact that for my other children it’s a necessity, so they can have some breathing room as well… So, it helped me to recognise that is something that we need to do.(P14-NC)
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- Subtheme 3.1: Prompted self-reflection in a positive way
I think it was helpful because it just made me think more about [child name]’s needs, my needs and if they are being addressed and how they are being addressed. So, sometimes we just don’t stop to think about all these questions or issues that are raised through this program. And I think it’s a good process. So especially beneficial for me as a caregiver and a parent.(P22-NC)
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- Subtheme 3.2: Elicited feelings of confrontation
Well, it’s just the whole thing. When you read the questions, it’s not like you are trying to blank out the illness, it’s just, just hard dealing with your feelings and worries, I suppose. I am no different to everybody else, you try to bury your feelings and worries because you still have to go on with other things.(P09-C)
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- Subtheme 3.3: Enabled a different perspective
the questions open up different pathways for your thoughts as well. I think. So, you know it helps you to sort of break down your own thoughts and to, you know, go more into depths of why you are thinking the way you are thinking.(P08-C)
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- Subtheme 3.4: Helped themselves and others
At the end of the day I actually realised that even though I am in that situation I actually still feel blessed and that there is actually a lot more that’s positive that’s coming out of this. And it’s not all just bad and sad and so and so. No, I really think it was good for me, personally for me, myself.(P02-C)
I see that as a positive in providing information to you. So, that hopefully that feeds back and it provides help to others. And that’s my ultimate goal. I know in the end, that, we might not be able to help [child name]. But, you know, the end goal for me is, if I can, if something good comes out of this it is going to be that we’ve helped inform others about our situation and about what areas are lacking and what can be improved.(P08-C)
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- Subtheme 4.1: Validation of parents’ needs and role
This is on a completely different level. And this is about acknowledging and diving deeper and getting me to do some self-reflection. And, and knowing and acknowledging the issues that I’ve got. I think it’s been invaluable; I think it is fantastic and very different.(P24-NC)
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- Subtheme 4.2: Established own strategies
But I did start one thing that we discussed on there, which was the meditation. So, I definitely started doing that after the assessment.(P21-NC)
I haven’t seen this psychologist for three months. And I thought I didn’t need to. And then when I went and saw her, I realised how much I had to talk about. So, I can’t leave it that long I have to definitely check in with her every now and again.(P21-NC)
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- Subtheme 4.3: Felt reassured to ask for support
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- Subtheme 4.4: Engaged in advocacy
I think we just try and look at other avenues to see if we could get things ourselves to speed up the process. I’ve even tried to ring members of parliament and the radio station just to, yeah things like that, just to bring to light the issues what we have. Because sometimes I think if we don’t speak people don’t understand.(P28-NC)
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- Subtheme 5.1: Parent felt better informed and prepared
It’s sort of prepared me for what’s going to come and had a plan in place.(P07-C)
having talked to [HP name] and the doctor we know we have plans in action if we need it. So, I feel a little bit more comfort with that.(P11-C)
I guess by having gone through the process and being able to talk to [HP name] about some of my concerns around transition allowed me to have a conversation about what is a clear plan. Who can I turn to in between the process? It helped me to put some steps into place, I guess. Just through having those conversations. (P15-NC)
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- Subtheme 5.2: Increased confidence and coping
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- Subtheme 5.3: Support addressed needs
She has been able to answer a lot of the questions I had and find the answers that I needed, by going through that form. So, it’s been very helpful. And I am very thankful that you’ve done it.(P11-C)
Obviously, [HP name] and [HP name], anything that I had issues with or that is, you know, I needed help through what we’ve worked out from the questionnaire that they have been able to help, which has been amazing.(P23-NC)
Well, I just want to say, thank you very much, really. Because I think that’s something that is, all the year that we had, so many things, we got bombarded with people who want to do surveys and from the health department or, you know, I get calls all the time. But this one seems to be the one right for us and that made it, again, reassuring that somebody is out there trying to understand, or trying to find out where we are coming from.(P08-C)
5. Discussion
5.1. Gaps in Supportive Networks
5.2. Limitations
6. Conclusions
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Acknowledgments
Conflicts of Interest
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Theme | Subthemes |
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Theme 1. Caregiving challenges, perceived gaps, and feelings of isolation | Mental impact on parents and perceived gaps in support Feelings that parents come last Frustration with inadequacies of external providers Care lacking a psychosocial focus and feelings of isolation |
Theme 2. Practicality and usefulness of the systematic assessment | Straightforward form and approach—structured and comprehensive |
Improved communication | |
Raised awareness on issues including the family unit | |
Theme 3. Emotional responses to self-reflection | Prompted self-reflection in a positive way |
Elicited feelings of confrontation | |
Allowed a different perspective | |
Helped with a sense of meaning | |
Theme 4. Validation and empowerment | Validation of parent caregiver’s needs and role |
Established own strategies | |
Felt reassured to ask for support | |
Engaged in advocacy | |
Theme 5. Receiving support responsive to their needs | Felt better informed and prepared |
Increased confidence and coping | |
Felt received support addressed needs |
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Aoun, S.M.; Stegmann, R.; Deleuil, R.; Momber, S.; Cuddeford, L.; Phillips, M.B.; Lyon, M.E.; Gill, F.J. “It Is a Whole Different Life from the Life I Used to Live”: Assessing Parents’ Support Needs in Paediatric Palliative Care. Children 2022, 9, 322. https://doi.org/10.3390/children9030322
Aoun SM, Stegmann R, Deleuil R, Momber S, Cuddeford L, Phillips MB, Lyon ME, Gill FJ. “It Is a Whole Different Life from the Life I Used to Live”: Assessing Parents’ Support Needs in Paediatric Palliative Care. Children. 2022; 9(3):322. https://doi.org/10.3390/children9030322
Chicago/Turabian StyleAoun, Samar M., Roswitha Stegmann, Renee Deleuil, Suzanne Momber, Lisa Cuddeford, Marianne B. Phillips, Maureen E. Lyon, and Fenella J. Gill. 2022. "“It Is a Whole Different Life from the Life I Used to Live”: Assessing Parents’ Support Needs in Paediatric Palliative Care" Children 9, no. 3: 322. https://doi.org/10.3390/children9030322
APA StyleAoun, S. M., Stegmann, R., Deleuil, R., Momber, S., Cuddeford, L., Phillips, M. B., Lyon, M. E., & Gill, F. J. (2022). “It Is a Whole Different Life from the Life I Used to Live”: Assessing Parents’ Support Needs in Paediatric Palliative Care. Children, 9(3), 322. https://doi.org/10.3390/children9030322