“I Called When I Was at My Lowest”: Australian Men’s Experiences of Crisis Helplines
Abstract
:1. Introduction
2. Materials and Methods
2.1. Participants and Procedure
2.2. Measures
2.2.1. Suicidality
2.2.2. COVID-19 Stressors
2.2.3. Helpline Use
2.3. Data Analysis
2.3.1. Quantitative Analysis
2.3.2. Qualitative Analysis
3. Results
3.1. Quantitative Results
3.1.1. Sample Characteristics
3.1.2. Impact of COVID-19 Stressors
3.2. Qualitative Results
3.2.1. Nature of Interaction
I spoke with someone who was kind and supportive and helped me see a way out of a difficult situation.
(Helpline) lady was really nice, helped me unbottle some of my emotions…
No help whatsoever, the person at the end of the line was useless.
The service provider agreed that one of the reasons I was calling was ‘terrible’ but after I ‘rambled’ she broke in with ‘I’m not able to continue this call. What are you going to do when this call ends? I stated that I would either ‘do dishes’ or ‘go for a walk’.
They were outstanding. Spent plenty of time with me and really helped calm me and reset.
Useful to get me out of a bad space. Nice to simply have someone to share my thoughts with and listen without judgement.
They listened, but I found they just provided an ear. Which is important in the situation. I called when I was at my lowest.
It was very helpful with some tips to better manage what I was going through.
Found (Helpline) uninterested in my problems concerning domestic abuse by an ex-girlfriend, as I was a male victim. Only concerned as to my suicidal thoughts. Useless for assistance to male victims of DV/DA. Would never recommend to male friends. Gave the appearance of bias against males.
3.2.2. Service Structure
Useful to deal with immediate overwhelming thoughts.
Was good to talk to someone immediately as opposed to waiting for my next session with (my) psychologist.
It was instant, connected me to a counsellor right away, they really listened and referred me to someone in my area who I can see face-to-face once lockdown ends.
(Helpline) was great. The counsellor was brilliant. I was thinking about throwing myself in front of a train and called. He was the best I’ve ever spoken to.
I was on hold for 45 min and then had to go back to my kids without speaking to anyone. It was very disappointing.
(Helpline) were useless and hung up on me leaving me upset, bewildered, anxious and feeling worthless and more alone than ever.
There didn’t seem to be much they could do for me as they were so overwhelmed, but pointed me in other directions.
3.2.3. Mismatched Expectations
Important and useful in the moment. Ultimately not a satisfying service to reach outcomes.
To seek help and how could I overcome these problems, I contacted (Helpline) but harassment from ex-wife and her father is too much that calling on (Helpline) didn’t help me. I’m still very stressed.
Waste of time because not a qualified psychologist.
I am also dubious about the qualifications of the counsellors.
At the end of the day they can’t fix your problems, it just brings them to the surface. I just bottle everything up. I don’t feel like anyone can help.
Over the phone has always been a bit weird, I never really vibe it.
I much prefer talking to a friend if one is available.
4. Discussion
4.1. Implications
4.2. Limitations and Future Directions
5. Conclusions
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Acknowledgments
Conflicts of Interest
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Total (N = 684) | Helpline Use (n = 100) | No Helpline Use (n = 584) | t/Chi (df) | Sig | ES (g/φc) | |
---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
Mean age (SD) | 50.13 (15.20) | 46.65 (15.29) | 50.73 (15.12) | 2.49 (682) | 0.013 | 0.269 |
% (n) | % (n) | % (n) | ||||
Age groups | 12.27 (3) | 0.007 | 0.134 | |||
18–25 | 6.9 (47) | 14.0 (14) | 5.7 (33) | |||
26–45 | 31.3 (214) | 30.0 (30) | 31.5 (184) | |||
46–60 | 34.1 (233) | 37.0 (37) | 33.6 (196) | |||
61+ | 27.8 (190) | 19.0 (19) | 29.3 (171) | |||
Sexuality | 1.16 (1) | 0.282 | 0.041 | |||
Heterosexual | 70.5 (482) | 75.0 (75) | 69.7 (407) | |||
Sexual minority | 29.5 (202) | 25.0 (25) | 30.3 (177) | |||
Relationship status | 2.82 (1) | 0.093 | 0.064 | |||
Single/never married | 38.5 (263) | 46.0 (46) | 37.2 (217) | |||
Married/Partnered | 61.5 (421) | 54.0 (54) | 62.8 (367) | |||
Residence | 1.05 (2) | 0.591 | 0.039 | |||
Metropolitan | 65.9 (451) | 68.0 (68) | 65.6 (383) | |||
Regional | 27.8 (190) | 28.0 (28) | 27.7 (162) | |||
Remote or rural | 6.3 (43) | 4.0 (4) | 6.7 (39) | |||
Employment status | 14.06 (3) | 0.003 | 0.143 | |||
Employed | 65.8 (450) | 62.0 (62) | 66.4 (388) | |||
Unemployed | 10.1 (69) | 19.0 (19) | 8.6 (50) | |||
Retired | 20.3 (139) | 13.0 (13) | 21.6 (126) | |||
Student | 3.8 (26) | 6.0 (6) | 3.4 (20) | |||
Education | 0.95 (1) | 0.329 | 0.037 | |||
High school/Trade/cert/diploma | 42.5 (291) | 47.0 (47) | 41.8 (244) | |||
Undergraduate/postgraduate degree | 57.5 (393) | 53.0 (53) | 58.2 (340) | |||
Income | 4.62 (4) | 328 | 0.082 | |||
0–49,000 | 36.0 (246) | 44.0 (44) | 34.6 (202) | |||
50,000–99,999 | 29.8 (204) | 30.0 (30) | 29.8 (174) | |||
100,000–149,999 | 19.4 (133) | 15.0 (15) | 20.2 (118) | |||
150,000–199,999 | 6.4 (44) | 4.0 (4) | 6.8 (40) | |||
200,000+ | 8.3 (57) | 7.0 (7) | 8.6 (50) | |||
Have sought help from mental health professional since March 2020 | 55.10 (1) | <0.001 | 0.284 | |||
Yes | 49.7 (340) | 84.0 (84) | 43.8 (256) | |||
No | 50.3 (344) | 16.0 (16) | 56.2 (328) | |||
First time help-seeking since March 2020 | n = 340 | n = 84 | n = 256 | 0.92 (1) | 0.338 | 0.052 |
Yes | 23.5 (80) | 27.4 (23) | 22.3 (57) | |||
No | 76.5 (260) | 72.9 (62) | 77.7 (199) | |||
Suicidality (Since March 2020) | n = 684 | n = 100 | n = 584 | |||
Intent | 28.4 (201) | 56.0 (56) | 24.8 (145) | 39.98 (1) | <0.001 | 0.242 |
Plan | 17.7 (121) | 41.0 (41) | 13.7 (80) | 43.71 (1) | <0.001 | 2.53 |
Attempt | 2.2 (15) | 5.0 (5) | 1.7 (10) | 4.30 (1) | 0.038 | 0.079 |
Current suicidality (PHQ-9 item) | n = 684 | n = 100 | n = 584 | 32.80 (1) | <0.001 | 0.219 |
Yes | 31.4 (215) | 56.0 (56) | 27.2 (159) | |||
No | 68.6 (469) | 44.0 (44) | 72.8 (425) |
Helpline | % of Participants Used (Multiple Responses Per Participant) |
---|---|
Lifeline | 44.0 (44) |
Beyond Blue | 42.0 (42) |
Mensline | 29.0 (29) |
eheadspace | 12.0 (12) |
Suicide Call Back Service | 3.0 (3) |
Open Arms | 3.0 (3) |
QLife | 3.0 (3) |
1800 Respect | 6.0 (6) |
Kids Helpline | 2.0 (2) |
Helplines derived from “other” responses | 7.0 (7) |
Family Relationship Advice Line | 1.0 (1) |
Resolve Warm Line | 1.0 (1) |
Soldier On | 1.0 (1) |
MATES line | 1.0 (1) |
Gambler’s Help | 1.0 (1) |
Other miscellaneous helpline (name not provided) | 2.0 (2) |
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Trail, K.; Wilson, M.J.; Rice, S.M.; Hunt, T.; Pirkis, J.; Seidler, Z.E. “I Called When I Was at My Lowest”: Australian Men’s Experiences of Crisis Helplines. Int. J. Environ. Res. Public Health 2022, 19, 9143. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph19159143
Trail K, Wilson MJ, Rice SM, Hunt T, Pirkis J, Seidler ZE. “I Called When I Was at My Lowest”: Australian Men’s Experiences of Crisis Helplines. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health. 2022; 19(15):9143. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph19159143
Chicago/Turabian StyleTrail, Katherine, Michael J. Wilson, Simon M. Rice, Tara Hunt, Jane Pirkis, and Zac E. Seidler. 2022. "“I Called When I Was at My Lowest”: Australian Men’s Experiences of Crisis Helplines" International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health 19, no. 15: 9143. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph19159143