The Dark Side of Boys’ Compliments to Girls: Exploring Their Relationship with Sexism and Cyberviolence Towards Intimate Partners
Abstract
:1. Introduction
1.1. Objectification of Women Through “Compliments”
1.2. Ambivalent Sexism and Objectification Through Compliments
1.3. Cyberviolence in Relationships and Compliments
1.4. The Present Study
2. Method
2.1. Participants
2.2. Measures
2.3. Procedure
2.4. Statistical Analysis
3. Results
Descriptive Statistics
4. Discussion
Limitations and Future Directions
5. Conclusions
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Conflicts of Interest
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Mean (SD) | t | p | Cohen’s d | Effect Size R | ||
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14–16 Years | 17–18 Years | |||||
Frequency of comments about women’s bodies | 3.12 (1.07) | 2.16 (0.592) | 9.51 | 0.001 | 1.11 | 0.48 |
You think women like to receive feedback about their body | 3.78 (1.03) | 3.73 (0.990) | 0.409 | 0.683 | 0.04 | 0.02 |
Effect on girls of comments about the body | 3.41 (0.649) | 3.21 (1.05) | 2.07 | 0.039 | 0.23 | 0.11 |
Social expectations of making comments about the body | 3.78 (1.06) | 3.14 (1.00) | 5.55 | 0.001 | 0.62 | 0.29 |
Predisposition to change | 5.35 (0.768) | 5.45 (1.14) | −0.937 | 0.349 | −0.10 | 0.05 |
Hostile sexism | 3.96 (1.00) | 3.51 (1.16) | 3.57 | 0.001 | 0.40 | 0.19 |
Benevolent sexism | 3.76 (1.12) | 3.09 (1.12) | 5.22 | 0.001 | 0.59 | 0.28 |
Partner cybercontrol | 3.14 (1.17) | 1.76 (0.815) | 11.77 | 0.001 | 1.53 | 0.61 |
Online jealousy | 3.31 (1.08) | 2.21 (0.949) | 9.57 | 0.001 | 1.08 | 0.47 |
Online intrusive behaviors | 3.13 (1.16) | 1.85 (0.853) | 10.86 | 0.001 | 1.39 | 0.57 |
Age | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 9 | |
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(1) Frequency of comments about women’s bodies | −0.49 ** | ||||||||
(2) You think women like to receive comments about their body | 0.11 | 0.25 ** | |||||||
(3) Effect on girls of comments about the body | −0.11 | 0.25 ** | 0.26 ** | ||||||
(4) Social expectations about making comments about the body | −0.29 ** | 0.60 ** | 0.28 ** | 0.28 ** | |||||
(5) Predisposition to change | −0.05 | −0.07 | −0.10 ** | −0.10 | −0.03 | ||||
(6) Hostile sexism | −0.19 ** | 0.29 ** | 0.18 ** | 0.18 ** | 0.38 ** | 0.05 | |||
(7) Benevolent sexism | −0.28 ** | 0.47 ** | 0.21 ** | 0.23 ** | 0.48 ** | 0.01 | 0.57 ** | ||
(8) Partner cybercontrol | −0.57 ** | 0.73 ** | 0.23 ** | 0.23 ** | 0.49 ** | −0.18 ** | 0.24 ** | 0.46 ** | |
(9) Online jealousy | −0.47 ** | 0.63 ** | 0.20 ** | 0.21 ** | 0.48 ** | −0.06 | 0.32 ** | 0.49 ** | 0.80 ** |
(10) Online intrusive behaviors | −0.53 ** | 0.70 ** | 0.22 ** | 0.22 ** | 0.51 ** | −0.17 ** | 0.25 ** | 0.49 ** | 0.89 ** |
B | SE B | β | t (p) | |
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Step 1 | ||||
Age | −0.18 | 0.08 | −0.362 | −8.56 *** |
Social expectations about making comments about the body | 0.20 | 0.04 | 0.408 | 8.66 *** |
You think women like to receive comments about their body | 0.14 | 0.04 | 0.174 | 3.76 *** |
Effect on girls of comments about the body | 0.02 | 0.03 | 0.043 | 1.01 |
Predisposition to change | 0.01 | 0.03 | −0.076 | −1.82 |
F (df, df error) | 62.6 *** (5, 310) | |||
R2 | 0.495 | |||
Step 2 | ||||
Age | −0.095 | −2.16 * | ||
Social expectations about making comments about the body | 0.230 | 5.20 *** | ||
You think women like to receive comments about their body | 0.154 | 3.66 *** | ||
Effect on girls of comments about the body | 0.022 | 0.598 | ||
Predisposition to change | 0.008 | 0.212 | ||
Hostile sexism | −0.03 | 0.03 | −0.042 | −0.953 |
Benevolent sexism | 0.02 | 0.03 | 0.029 | 0.610 |
Partner cybercontrol | 0.30 | 0.06 | 0.385 | 4.57 ** |
Online jealousy | −0.01 | 0.05 | −0.022 | −0.355 |
Online intrusive behaviors | 0.10 | 0.06 | 0.126 | 1.58 |
F (df, df error) | 51.9 *** (11, 305) | |||
R2 | 0.640 | |||
ΔR2 | 0.150 | |||
ΔF2 | 21.9 *** | |||
Step 3 | ||||
Age | 1.48 | 0.36 | 0.768 | 4.09 *** |
Social expectations about making comments about the body | −0.01 | 0.11 | −0.019 | −0.148 |
You think women like to receive comments about their body | −0.07 | 0.12 | −0.073 | −0.578 |
Effect on girls of comments about the body | 0.22 | 0.15 | 0.209 | 1.46 |
Predisposition to change | −0.21 | 0.10 | −0.223 | −2.12 * |
Hostile sexism | −0.46 | 0.28 | −0.536 | −1.63 |
Benevolent sexism | 0.19 | 0.30 | 0.233 | 0.629 |
Partner cybercontrol | 0.65 | 0.35 | 0.820 | −2.12 * |
Online jealousy | 0.68 | 0.30 | 0.817 | 2.29 * |
Online intrusive behaviors | −0.17 | 0.38 | −0.219 | −0.459 |
Age × partner cybercontrol | −0.48 | 0.13 | −0.729 | −3.68 *** |
Hostile sexism × partner cybercontrol | 0.15 | 0.07 | 0.945 | 1.95 * |
Hostile sexism × online jealousy | −0.10 | 0.05 | −0.657 | −2.09 * |
Benevolent sexism × social expectations | 0.08 | 0.03 | 0.571 | 2.19 * |
F (df, df error) | 28.5 *** (32, 283) | |||
R2 | 0.737 | |||
R2 | 0.111 | |||
ΔF2 | 6.31 *** |
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Rodríguez-Castro, Y.; Martínez-Román, R.; Lameiras-Fernández, M. The Dark Side of Boys’ Compliments to Girls: Exploring Their Relationship with Sexism and Cyberviolence Towards Intimate Partners. Behav. Sci. 2025, 15, 572. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs15050572
Rodríguez-Castro Y, Martínez-Román R, Lameiras-Fernández M. The Dark Side of Boys’ Compliments to Girls: Exploring Their Relationship with Sexism and Cyberviolence Towards Intimate Partners. Behavioral Sciences. 2025; 15(5):572. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs15050572
Chicago/Turabian StyleRodríguez-Castro, Yolanda, Rosana Martínez-Román, and María Lameiras-Fernández. 2025. "The Dark Side of Boys’ Compliments to Girls: Exploring Their Relationship with Sexism and Cyberviolence Towards Intimate Partners" Behavioral Sciences 15, no. 5: 572. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs15050572
APA StyleRodríguez-Castro, Y., Martínez-Román, R., & Lameiras-Fernández, M. (2025). The Dark Side of Boys’ Compliments to Girls: Exploring Their Relationship with Sexism and Cyberviolence Towards Intimate Partners. Behavioral Sciences, 15(5), 572. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs15050572