1. Introduction
The main task of parenting is to give care. Caring for children involves responsibility for their well-being and knowledge about their needs and how to accommodate them. Most importantly, there is an emotional bond between parents and their children that is essential to children’s development and happiness [
1]. The central task for parents is not simply to keep the child alive, or provide appropriate discipline, but “create the conditions in which children can develop their fullest capacity both inside and outside the family” [
2]. The responsibilities and challenges involved in childcare are numerous and parents usually find ways to manage it, even in extreme conditions, such when a child has cancer.
Having a child with cancer is an overwhelming life experience for both parents. It causes psychological distress, especially at the time of diagnosis but also throughout all the therapy cycles, that can impact on the parental health locus of control [
3] and can bring to post-traumatic stress symptoms [
4,
5].
The responsibilities and challenges involved in childcare are numerous and parents usually find ways to manage them, even in extreme conditions, such when a child has cancer. Taking care of the child with leukaemia is physically and emotionally demanding because parents must negotiate a myriad of potentially stressful situations daily: Talking with the child about the illness, learning how to correctly perform a home care regimen, managing the parent’s own emotions about the child’s disease and survival, advocating on the child’s behalf within a complex health care system, providing care for unaffected siblings, and fulfilling extra-familiar obligations (employment, financial) during periods of child sickness or hospitalisation [
6]. ‘Being there’ is described as a parental response to the perceived vulnerability of the child and the parental need to give meaning to parenthood. It serves two purposes: protection and preservation. Protection means guarding the child against the negative aspects of illness and treatment. Preservation refers to the way parents influence the child’s perception of his/her life, thus contributing to his/her coping and willingness to undergo treatment, to maximise the chances for survival [
7]. In this sense, parenting can be a resource that help children cope with the several daily painful procedures, in order to have also a better adaptive behaviour when the therapy cycles become less intensive, and the children can return to some normal developmental activities.
Especially for mothers, caring evokes an intense emotional interdependence with their sick child, and involves a range of technical tasks and emotional work, including acting as “brokers” of information for their child and managing the cooperation with treatment [
8]. When a child has cancer, parents enter a world where the terrain is unfamiliar and their basic childrearing tasks are challenged. Problems such as overprotectiveness, difficulty with consistent discipline and expression of appropriate concerns about “spoiling” the child, can occur in parenting tasks [
9]. Parents of the pre-schooler children with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia (ALL) reported significantly more lax parenting practices and strategies associated with their child’s sleep (i. co-sleeping, comforting activities, and offering more food and drink in the bedroom than the healthy group) [
10] that can contribute to children’s sleeping difficulties. Additionally, parents respond to child executive function difficulties with greater overprotection, which may be adaptive but not conducive to the development of independence. Although most parents report normative levels of child vulnerability and overprotection, a small subset demonstrate parenting practices that may place some survivors at risk for adverse outcomes [
11].
Adherence to paediatric cancer treatment can be difficult for families, especially when the child is a young child, and the required tasks include medical procedures (mouth care and physical exams) [
12]. More important, some of these difficulties are related to the parent’s childrearing attitudes and practices, with the supportive parenting style being the best one, encouraging children to express their needs, physical and emotional reactions to the treatment [
12].
Little attention has been, as of yet, paid to the caring efforts of parents and if it could be an important moderator in children’s adaptation to the daily new life after a diagnosis of cancer. The present study seeks insight into the parenting practices in caring for their child with leukaemia.
Aims
The first aim of this study was to understand the parenting behaviours, the coping strategies and adaptability of children with leukaemia along parental narratives and their presence in our participants.
The second aim was to identify if parenting behaviours were different in relation to the child’s age. For this purpose, we expected that the supportive parenting style could be an essential tool especially when the child is a pre-schooler and the required tasks include medical procedures (mouth care, conducting physical exams, venepunctures, bone marrow aspirations). Probably, a more necessary and intensive care was needed for infants and toddlers than for older children.
The third aim was to understand if child coping strategies and child adaptability were related to parenting styles and were associated with the child’s age. In the literature (i.e., [
13]), we have seen that parents’ behaviour may affect the child’s reactions to treatment and general adjustment in several ways: helping children during medical procedures [
14,
15], increasing their general compliance with treatment [
12,
16].
A priority was to develop and test explicit models of how family processes influence the psychological development of children with chronic health conditions. Studies have emphasised the importance of family communication and support [
17] and of general family factors in exacerbating or attenuating the impact of the disease on the child [
18].
Parental social support may buffer the association between parent and child distress, even if the quality and the timing of support are not clearly established. Another factor linked to distress in children is the quality of family environment [
19,
20] with cohesive and expressive families more capable of ensuring the adjustment of each family member, and thereby buffering parent and child distress [
21].
Based upon the existing literature, we expect that family factors and disease characteristics would be causal independent variables which impact upon children’s adaptive behaviours after one year of the child’s therapies.
In particular, we think that a general dimension such as Parenting (comprehensive of all the parental strategies to help children to cope with the illness) assessed at the beginning of the child’s hospitalisations and treatments, can be an important mediator that impacts upon the child’s early coping with medical procedures and upon the child’s behavioural adaptation one year post diagnosis.
2. Materials and Methods
2.1. Procedure
The project was approved by the University of Padua, Psychology faculty with the protocol n. 4039. The families were contacted by a clinical psychologist during the first hospitalisation of their children, about one week after the diagnosis. Project aims were explained, and informed consent was requested. Informal contacts with the participants were kept up on a daily basis, to provide support and motivation for the project. The parents were interviewed in a separate room of the Clinic. The questionnaires were filled in the child’s room, with the clinical psychologist’s assistance, during a quiet period of the day. The participants were informed that they were free to drop out at any moment of the study. Each family was contacted again at several established time points: 1 month later, 6 months later and 12 months later, but here we will show only the first and the last assessment steps. The assessments were carried out at the Day Hospital or in the library of the Clinic. The psychologist remained constantly in touch with the child and the family for the duration of the study, with frequent telephone contact and direct contact during the DH check-ups. Before the assessments, the psychologist contacted the parent by telephone to agree about the meeting. The data collection phase of the study required several steps. The timing followed two main events: the child’s coping and parenting assessment in the second week after the communication of the diagnosis (T1) adopting the EFI-C, and 12 months later (T4) adopting the Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales (VABS). The first contact took place while the child was under the initial therapy in the Clinic and the next assessment was done when the child and the family came for day hospital visits.
2.2. Participants
The patients were 118 children with leukaemia and their parents recruited at the Haematology–Oncologic Clinic of the Department of Child and Woman Health, University of Padua. All parents were Caucasians with a mean age of 37.39 years (SD = 6.03). Most parents had 13 years of school (50.8%); 32.2% had 8 years; 5.9% had a college education; 9.3% had a degree or diploma and 1.7% had 5 years of school. Parents’ incomes were average (52.7%), high (24.1%) and low (23.2%) for Italian norms, but above poverty. The average of job hours/weekly were mostly around 35 (28.4%) and 45 (22%), even if the most of parents had partial parental leave or they were housewives (43.4%). The parents who participated were mostly mothers (N = 101) and only a few were fathers (N = 17) because the mothers were more proximal to the child during hospitalisation while fathers stayed with other siblings or continued to work to maintain the family. In the preliminary analysis we controlled for the possible differences between fathers and mothers. There were no significant differences in our variables so we decided to consider them all together. Children’s mean age was 5.89 years (SD = 4.21, range = 1 year–17 years). Mostly children had Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia (ALL) (N = 98), while 20 had Acute Myeloid Leukaemia (AML). At the following time-points we had a loss of participants due to several reasons: 11 deceased, 4 changed health centre, 5 relapsed or were in grave illness situation at the assessment moment and only 5 families dropped out from the study (3.9%).
2.3. Analyses Plan
Descriptive statistics were used to address the first question. To answer the second question on how the child’s age affects parenting behaviour at T1, an ANCOVA was performed with: Parental perception on the child’s dimensions of EFI-C (Coping and Adaptability) and demographic factors (parent’s school years, parent’s mean of job days/a week, parent’s Life Stress Events) as covariates; Age of the Child (three levels: 0–3 ys, N = 32; 4–6 ys, N = 45; more than 7 ys, N = 35) as a fixed factor; Parenting as dependent variable.
To answer the second question on which family, child and disease factors just after the diagnosis communication were responsible for long-term adaptation of children with leukaemia after 1 year of treatments, three regression analyses, using Multiple regression for both moderation and mediation effects, were conducted. Baron and Kenny [
22] illustrated the three multiple regression analyses testing mediation effects: the significance of the path “predictor A (Parental perception on the child’s coping) on the mediator B (Parenting)” was examined in the first regression; the significance of the path “predictor A (Parental perception on the child’s coping) on the dependent variable C (VABS global score)” was examined in the second regression; finally, the predictor and mediator used simultaneously as predictors of dependent variable were tested in the last equation.
A regression approach was also used here for testing moderation effects. The predictor and moderator main effects were entered simultaneously into the regression equation first, followed by the interaction of the predictor and moderator. After preliminary analyses of Pearson’s bivariate correlations between the several variables tested, a model of mediation effects following the Baron and Kenny’s rule (three linear regressions) was performed to evaluate the family factors and disease characteristics at T1 which impacted upon children’s adaptive behaviours (Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales global score) one year after the child’s therapies. A post hoc Sobel test was used to control the signification of mediation effects.
2.4. Instruments
The EFI-Cancer (EFI-C; [
23,
24,
25]) is a parent interview which explores the daily routines of family life and the salient concerns regarding how that routine is organised. The interview is a mix of conversation, probing questions by the interviewer and pre-planned questions. Participants use their words and emphases. The interviews start with a question such as: ‘Would you guide me through your daily life? What is your and your child’s routine’? The EFI interview form flows from our theoretical and epistemological approach, which starts with the observation that the daily family routines and actions constitute adaptation tasks, in which various people participate. Such tasks are carried out, in practice, according to the family resources available and through specific scripts or sets of actions, which are meaningfully linked to the beliefs and values of the broader ecology and culture and which show the emotions and motivations held in them. When the adaptation tasks are overloaded by negative emotion, as often occurred in our case, the participants can sometimes find relief during the interview process [
25,
26].
A total of 98 items were extracted from the parental narratives and 11 major dimensions were identified, each of them with good internal consistency, three dealing with child experience and eight with the parental one. One-quarter of the total 118 interviews were coded by two independent judges with a score ranging from 0 (low presence of the variable) to 8 (high presence of the variable), showing good Spearman inter-rater reliability (rho = 0.833; p = 0.001). The inter-rater agreement could be run only on a part of the interviews because the rho value was really good, and it was not necessary to continue the coding from both the judges. All the remaining interviews were then coded by one judge. We selected only some EFI-C dimensions related to parenting and parental perceptions on the child’s coping and quality of life. The other dimensions were related to other topics not important for the aims of this study and therefore were not considered.
2.4.1. Vineland Adaptive Behavior Scales (VABS)
The VABS [
27,
28] are useful in assessing an individual’s daily functioning throughout several domains of adaptive functioning (personal and social). In this study we used The Interview Edition, Expanded Form, with 540 items. This form is administered to a parent or caregiver in a semi-structured interview format, and it yields a more comprehensive assessment of adaptive behaviour.
Adaptive behaviours investigated are: Communication, Daily Living Skills, Socialisation and Motor abilities. The Communication domain is comprised of three sub-domains: Receptive, Expressive, and Written Language. The Daily Living Skills scale includes the Personal, Domestic, and Community sub-domains. The Socialisation scale is comprised of the Interpersonal, Play and Leisure, and Coping Skills sub-domains. The Motor scale includes Gross and Fine motor abilities.
Studies confirming the reliability and validity of the VABS have solidified this measure as one of the most widely used assessments of adaptive behaviour. Using a checklist to assess adaptive behaviour may limit the information an interviewer gathers about the various activities involved in an individual’s behaviour. A checklist also may allow the respondent to bias the outcome of the assessment because he or she might not fully understand the intent of certain items or might not know the criteria for scoring.
Consciously or unconsciously, the respondent might choose scores that do not reflect the individual’s true behaviours. Reliability studies indicate that professionally conducted and scored interviews have higher reliability and validity than checklists. Each item is rated “2” (behaviour is usually or habitually performed), “1” (sometimes or partly performed), or “0” (never performed). In addition, there is a code (“N”) for cases when the child has never had the opportunity to perform the activity and a code (“DK”) to use when the caregiver does not know if the child performed the activity. In this study we used the raw scores of each domain and of the total adaptation score. Psychometric properties for the Expanded Form in the Italian standardisation version revealed a good reliability and validity and has been adopted also in this clinical population in a precedent study [
29].
2.4.2. SES Questionnaire
Parental education and occupational status were measured. In particular, the following variables were considered: number of years of school achievement, type and average hours of job, economical status, number of familiars and sons in the family.
4. Discussion
Parenting a child with cancer can be very difficult for families, especially when the child is very young and the required tasks include several medical and stressful procedures [
10,
14]. As expected, the results of the present study confirm the presence of a significant group difference in parenting by the child’s age: infants require a higher and more intensive parenting behaviour, followed, respectively, by school-aged children and by pre-school aged children. We think that these findings confirm the difficult role of parents in caring their ill children when they are younger: infants’ routines change so much due to hospitalisation in an important developmental time and they need more energy directed towards them. Additionally, the school age can be critical in another sense, because the children comprehend better the situation due to their cognitive maturity. This capacity sometimes is useful but requires intensive parent communication and support. Parents of school-aged children have to manage their parenting functions to help their sons/daughters to tolerate the school and the peer relationship absences. Pre-school children probably have fewer needs in these fields of social relationship and schooling, because they do not yet have many previous routines to maintain, and they require primarily the physical presence of the parent in the hospital daily activities.
To answer the second research question about which family, child and disease factors just after the diagnosis communication are responsible for long-term adaptation of children with leukaemia after 1 year of treatment, we examine the precedent studies, noting that in the literature there is no study that measures which family factors are responsible for the child’s long-term behavioural adaptation at specific time points of the illness such as after 1 year. Our related priority is to develop and to test an explicit model of how family processes influence the psychological development of children with chronic disease conditions. Therefore, we expect that some family and children coping and quality of life factors assessed in the early period close to the communication of the diagnosis would be causal independent variables which impact upon children’s adaptive behaviours post one year of the child’s therapies. In particular, we think that parenting (including of all the parental strategies to help children to cope with the illness) and the child’s coping with medical procedures and quality of life assessed at the beginning of the child’s hospitalisations and treatments, can impact upon the child’s behavioural adaptation one year post diagnosis, but we are interested in understanding if there is a linear causal relationship or a mediation effect between the mentioned factors. Our findings showed that the child’s coping with medical procedures at the second week after the diagnosis controlled for parenting effect, impacts upon the child’s behavioural adaptation one-year post diagnosis. Early child coping resulted a key factor for the future adaption of the child, but the role of good parenting also reinforced the possibility of the child’s adaptive behaviour being good throughout the therapies.
Parenting is a mediator that dampens the direct effect of the child’s early coping upon the child’s adaptive functioning, entering the model as a key element to be considered. Parenting and parental perception on the child’s coping impact on Communication and Motor skills abilities was especially significant. We can appreciate this result because a specific intervention programme can be implemented to help children more at risk just after the diagnosis for developmental delays. Therefore, these results prompt us to think about two parallel programmes: one to increase the child’s coping strategies during the first hospitalisation, especially for school-aged children, and the other to teach some parenting strategies to parents of children just at the beginning of therapies, specific for the younger children.
Communication and motor abilities should be enforced adopting, just at the diagnosis time, the child’s coping strategies (i.e., distraction, cognitive self-instruction, social support, problem solving). Parenting training could improve the emotional resources of parents for helping children in their adaptive tasks both at the beginning of the illness and after 1 year of therapies, when they could come back to their daily routines such as school or other social activities.
This study has several limitations including the small sample size, the unique centre experience, the use of proxy-report measures without self-reporting from paediatric patients. The strengths of this study are the homogeneity of the diagnosis of children (all leukaemia’s), the richness of the qualitative data extracted from parental narratives and the longitudinal design of the study. The longitudinal timing is the authentic strength of the study because until now longitudinal studies about this topic are lacking; therefore, this research filled an important gap.
Recommendations for future research could include: involvement of other Haematology–Oncologic Clinics, the adoption also of self-report measures and standardised tests on the paediatric patients at the different time points and the assessment of efficacy of adoption of intervention programme on parenting or on the child’s coping.