“If I Died Tomorrow, I’d Die Knowing That My Son Is Safe, Loved by the People in Here, Well Cared for, and Happy”: Exploring Maternal Perspectives on Community Living for Their Adult Children with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities
Abstract
:1. Introduction
1.1. Study Setting
1.2. Background
1.3. The Present Study
- What can we learn from mothers of adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities who experienced community transition in the city of Winnipeg regarding their children’s new lives in the community?
- According to mothers, what characterizes the lives of adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities who experienced community transition in this context?
2. Methods
2.1. The Interpretive Description Methodology
2.2. Positionality
2.3. Study Participants
2.4. Data Collection Procedures
- How do you feel about community living for your loved one?
- What characterizes your child’s new life in the community?
- Did your feelings and thoughts remain the same throughout the community transition process or did they change?
2.5. Thematic Analysis
3. Findings
3.1. Theme 1: “Our Children Are Well-Cared-For”
Ellen: “The level of care she is getting now compared to St.Amant I hate to say it, is way more! Way more. It’s one on one. …They [staff] worked with Melissa’s needs… when she moved in [the new community home] and proposed an in-house day program. …Something was going on all the time, and it was finally approved much to our relief. So, the nice thing about that was if one of the ladies was having a bad night, with seizures or whatever, and they were supposed to, say go to the zoo the next morning, it was like okay we’re not going to the zoo now, we will do our baking today and we’ll go to the zoo tomorrow. Which was really nice because the schedule then was very fluid to the needs of the girls. Uhm, and it made everybody much happier. And it still is that way with Melissa, and they really take into account her needs…”
Faith: “…And I think she [Emily] found the perfect lady to take care of her… I couldn’t have picked a better person to be a second mother to Emily. She dresses her like a doll. They take her out. …And she is starting to know her character, her personality, quite a bit. …Emily’s a very huggable person, so… She cuddles with her on the sofa many times. And she’s always so well dressed. I’m very happy. Very satisfied with the care she’s received.”
Carol: “It’s been wonderful. …He’s progressed, and the people here are just marvelous. The staffing is more stable, and Samuel is… I mean this is his home, he’s comfortable here… They get to spend more time with Samuel, and they’ve brought out all these wonderful things that were hidden. If I died tomorrow, I’d die knowing that my son is safe, loved by the people in here, well cared for, and happy.”
Mandy: “…But they’re very good at [community agency]. They’re extremely good… Since he [Mark] moved to [community agency], from two days after he moved, he’s up at 6:30 every morning… And I was very happy about [staff]… We were absolutely floored when he said she likes me! She’s good to me!”
Ellen: “There’s a lot of things that we’ll discuss [with the community home staff] about Melissa, like if there’s anything going on with her medically or whatever… I don’t just make a decision and say you have to follow it. I will go and talk to the staff that work with her and okay what’s your opinions? …It’s not only good for Melissa and the staff who’s looking after her, but it’s also good for me because I’m making a more informed choice with other people who are with her every day, uhm, so it just works to her benefit.”
Mandy: “We discuss everything with [name of community agency]… Like, they phone when they want to do this, can we try this? …We also told [name of community agency] our expectations, and [community agency] were very good. …And then [community agency] were so good, they got in touch with me to see what I expected, what I wanted, and they went out and had meetings with Mark [son].”
Carol: “…Turnover in staff. …So, when there was a, y’know a staff change or turnover, well naturally, it affected him, I mean he’s in a brand new place, a brand new environment, and then he’s just getting used to certain people and then all of a sudden, they’re gone.”
3.2. Theme 2: “Our Children Enjoy a Superior Quality of Life”
Ellen: “The staff very quickly picked up on Melissa’s nonverbal communications. They involve her in choices. They involve her in things, like when they take her shopping, they let her choose what she wants. Because they do know her answers, how to tell if it’s yes or no. I couldn’t be happier. She’s, uhm, grown that much more. She doesn’t mind the outings anymore. And that’s one thing that the staff does there, they include her in conversations, uhm, and they started doing a lot more day programs in the house with other homes, which is really cool. And uhm, Melissa absolutely loves it and her friends have increased. And it’s really nice, because uhm, she’s laughing more, she’s participating more… During meetings and conversations that involve her, she is part of it. And they’ll take her opinion, uhm, they’ll ask her questions, so they know what she wants. And it’s just, that much better.”
Ellen: “Her [daughter’s] social life on the weekends, forget it… She has more of a social life than I do. Uh, I’m very happy with it. …The first thing that they [staff] did was a potluck. They did a potluck lunch with other homes. …The first time, one other person showed up, and now there’s like twenty something people coming to these things. …The kids from the houses really enjoy getting together. And Melissa has made a really good friend in one of the other kids… They get along very well. And it’s now expanded to an in-house music program where the other people come. Melissa will join them at breakfast club… I know they’ve met her friend from the other house on shopping trips and outings and stuff. It’s really great. I can’t say enough about it. So, she started going outside a whole lot more at the house… They go to the park, they go to the mall, they go to… out wherever. I’m very satisfied.”
Carol: “He [son] is doing things and going places that I never, ever, ever in a million years thought he was capable of! And now, I go home and I cry tears of joy because I mean, he lives a much busier social life than I will ever live! He’s going to restaurants… He goes swimming once a week. …They go to the arcade. He goes to the bank. They take him shopping. …He went to a hockey game. I think, he’s been to a baseball game. It’s opened a whole new world for him!”
Faith: “I would say even just going for walks on the sidewalk with the kids [is a benefit of moving to the community]. …She [daughter] enjoys the nature. Not that here she couldn’t enjoy nature, but y’know it’s just… It’s just a different …Feeling. Yes, that you’re part of the neighbourhood.”
Ellen: “That’s the one big thing about the house right now, it’s Melissa’s home. And she is at home there. …[Melissa lives] in a group home… About five minutes away from my house, which I absolutely love. I was looking forward to her being closer to me… I was absolutely thrilled that it was going to be that close. And it’s within five minutes of my son… So, I was very happy with the location.”
Brenda: “What a beautiful home they built for her [daughter], it’s lovely, no complaints there, it’s lovely. I really like it. It’s a safe neighbourhood. It’s quiet. The house is new, it’s modern, and they have it really nicely furnished… She [staff member] made the home beautiful, that’s what I really loved.”
Ina: “Yeah, it [home] is nice. It’s big, it’s wheelchair accessible. And the area is a good area.”
Faith: “…The house, when we go there, it’s very clean and tidy, and decorated. It’s always decorated too, for themes. I could not say anything negative. They have a beautiful back yard… It’s a nice neighbourhood. The house is very neat and very well taken care of. And she has a fish aquarium. Emily [daughter] and Kim [roommate] love to look at the fish.”
3.3. Theme 3: “Our Children Are Doing Better”
Carol: “His [son’s] behaviour was more erratic. I mean his behaviour was quite erratic when he was at [institution].”
Mandy: “…They [staff] have got him totally off them [medications] in the daytime…”
Faith: “…Now she’s off her insulin… So… As far as her diet, it’s well taken care of. …She’s well taken, y’know medically… And medically, there’s doctors, or dentists, whatever. It’s all there for her to access.”
Goldie: “At [institution]… They were giving him two or three… Three types of medications. And now he’s only getting one at the home.”
Ellen: “…Melissa has really come out of her shell. She’s making new friends; she’s trying new things. …Just the involvement with… Non-special need people, like her workers and stuff, they’ll talk to her. I mean, some of her workers are about the same age. And they’ll talk to her as an equal.”
Ina: “I’m happy. It’s just that [daughter]’s behaviour is coming back again. The aggressive behaviour… Now it’s back… The psychotic meds, they had to increase it… She was good. This recently, it’s escalating. It started last year… The challenge, like now, the challenge is her behaviour. [The move was] very smooth until just now, that she’s showing this escalation of aggressiveness, sometimes head banging… That stuff she wasn’t doing before, it’s like it’s coming back. We don’t know why. Ripping off her clothes… But so far, she’s okay. It’s just that… Like I said, her behaviour is the only thing right now. And she’s not sleeping. That’s one thing. She’s not sleeping now.”
4. Discussion
Study Limitations
5. Conclusions
Supplementary Materials
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Acknowledgments
Conflicts of Interest
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Cameranesi, M.; Baranowski, M.; McCombe, L.; Kostal, K.; Mignone, J.; Shooshtari, S. “If I Died Tomorrow, I’d Die Knowing That My Son Is Safe, Loved by the People in Here, Well Cared for, and Happy”: Exploring Maternal Perspectives on Community Living for Their Adult Children with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities. Disabilities 2025, 5, 39. https://doi.org/10.3390/disabilities5020039
Cameranesi M, Baranowski M, McCombe L, Kostal K, Mignone J, Shooshtari S. “If I Died Tomorrow, I’d Die Knowing That My Son Is Safe, Loved by the People in Here, Well Cared for, and Happy”: Exploring Maternal Perspectives on Community Living for Their Adult Children with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities. Disabilities. 2025; 5(2):39. https://doi.org/10.3390/disabilities5020039
Chicago/Turabian StyleCameranesi, Margherita, Maria Baranowski, Lindsay McCombe, Kayla Kostal, Javier Mignone, and Shahin Shooshtari. 2025. "“If I Died Tomorrow, I’d Die Knowing That My Son Is Safe, Loved by the People in Here, Well Cared for, and Happy”: Exploring Maternal Perspectives on Community Living for Their Adult Children with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities" Disabilities 5, no. 2: 39. https://doi.org/10.3390/disabilities5020039
APA StyleCameranesi, M., Baranowski, M., McCombe, L., Kostal, K., Mignone, J., & Shooshtari, S. (2025). “If I Died Tomorrow, I’d Die Knowing That My Son Is Safe, Loved by the People in Here, Well Cared for, and Happy”: Exploring Maternal Perspectives on Community Living for Their Adult Children with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities. Disabilities, 5(2), 39. https://doi.org/10.3390/disabilities5020039