This study has clearly revealed that there is a lack of knowledge about lipedema, especially among primary healthcare providers, and that this lack of knowledge often leads to misconceptions, disrespect, and the feeling of not being taken seriously by patients. The findings suggest that women in their 20s and early 30s living with lipedema are especially vulnerable, since receiving a diagnosis more often leads to grief compared to the women of higher age in our sample. Another important finding from our study was the importance of support and belonging received from society, from family, or through romantic relationships, which was found for all ages. However, the younger women expressed how their looks and thoughts about themselves caused challenges in their romantic relationships and during intimacy. With respect to theme 1 (“how women with lipedema experience meeting with healthcare providers”), we chose to highlight the salutogenic perspective to showcase the importance of meeting the women with an open mind and a holistic view of the illness. With respect to theme 2 (“the importance of social support and the need to belong”), our findings were discussed from the perspective focusing on the importance of social support and “the need to belong”.
4.1. How Women with Lipedema Experience Meeting with Healthcare Providers
Our findings indicate that when the women were seeking a diagnosis, they visited several healthcare providers and were often told that they were overweight or obese [
5]. The women found that healthcare providers were not receptive to them presenting their symptoms or diagnosing themselves with lipedema online. Melander et al. [
10] reported that women described similar meetings with healthcare providers. Those authors found that women experienced skepticism from healthcare providers when they presented their lipedema symptoms, and often believed that the women tried to blame their looks on someone or something else rather than taking ownership of their condition. This exemplifies stigma among healthcare providers, similar to women in our study often being asked about their BMI and weight in our interviews. The recurring questions about weight and questioning their ability to lose weight could represent weight stigmatization of women that further reduces their self-confidence, which helps to increase their self-stigmatization.
A study by Lawrence et al. [
19] on weight bias among healthcare providers supported our findings since they found that many healthcare professionals view obesity as a consequence of poor lifestyle behaviors rather than a disease, which could contribute to the stigma around weight. This weight stigmatization by healthcare providers may have several negative effects, such as leading to inadequate patient assessments, inappropriate diagnoses and treatment decisions, less time being spent with patients, and discharging patients without follow-up [
20]. However, Lawrence et al. [
19] found that adjusting the way healthcare providers approach and talk to overweight patients can reduce the stigma about weight and improve the patient–provider relationship. Feelings of rejection and being disregarded can increase the degree of self-stigmatization of a patient, which can create or increase the feeling of shame [
21]. According to Hoffmann and Tarzinian [
22], society expects women to look good and be physically attractive, with good looks equaling good health. Thus, women with lipedema who appear healthy and present with good looks are often neglected or not prioritized when they visit healthcare providers.
Because lipedema can be an invisible illness, the younger women in our study and women in the early stages of lipedema might not have been taken seriously by healthcare providers, therefore experiencing difficulties in being diagnosed. On the other hand, the women of higher age in our study and women in later stages of lipedema may have been met with more stigma due to the illness being more visible. The latter could be related to us finding the women described as being labeled as obese or lazy further reporting that they did not receive appropriate treatment. Since we did not address lipedema stages, we could only speculate if the disease stage could affect the encounters between the women and healthcare providers. This would thus be an important area of future research. This stigma may cause unnecessary harm to the sense of self and worth of women with lipedema [
11]. Nevertheless, questions about their BMI status from doctors and other healthcare providers were not meant to be harmful. However, from our results and those of Melander et al. [
10] and Dudek et al. [
5], it seemed that healthcare providers tend to focus on pathology when meeting with patients. We could argue that this approach might miss important aspects of the reports from the women, since a holistic perspective was not often part of the women’s healthcare encounters in both the present and the latter studies [
5,
10]. We therefore argue that women who are met with a more salutogenic approach might obtain treatment that is better suited to them. Our findings support this since some of the women were met in a way that made them feel seen and heard. In consultations with healthcare providers, they were given the opportunity to find resources to cope and cooperated well with the providers who were willing to learn about the illness. Consequently, a tendency to only employ a pathological approach when meeting with the women meant that they were met under false pretenses by being labeled as overweight and lazy, and they therefore might not have received the help that they needed.
Puhl and Brownell [
23] substantiated this unmet need to receive adequate healthcare by showing that healthcare providers were less happy to treat patients with obesity because they perceived them as being noncompliant, dishonest, and less hygienic. This can contribute to healthcare providers not acknowledging the women and their often poor relationships with food [
11]. Pressure from the surroundings, friends, family, and healthcare providers could increase the risk of an eating disorder, and the women in our study felt that this pressure had affected them in social situations. The women were not often believed when they mentioned eating disorders because they showed no visible signs of having such a condition. These misconceptions may stem from people believing that individuals need to look sick or malnourished to be suffering from an eating disorder, and these misconceptions may also apply to healthcare providers [
23]. The combined effect of the external pressure to look good and be physically attractive [
22] in addition to common misconceptions about the illness could lead to more stigma. Healthcare providers should therefore aim to deconstruct and challenge their ideas about health, obesity, and eating disorders to offer the best possible care to women with lipedema. We believe that integrating a more holistic view is relevant not only to women with lipedema, but also to other diseases that only affect women, especially when the illness has few physical signs of pathology [
3].
We found that the women who were prescribed pain medication received little to no effect. The study of Melander et al. [
10] produced findings similar to ours, with women being asked to describe their pain and subsequently being prescribed medication based on the interpretation of the doctor. Women have more encounters with healthcare systems during their lifetimes than men do [
21]. Lipedema can be painful, and it may be harder for women to receive help because some healthcare providers believe that the pain women experience is largely related to emotions, that it is psychogenic and therefore “not real” [
22]. We believe that the patient–provider relationship is an important aspect to consider. Women have personal experiences with and knowledge about their bodies and want to share these with their healthcare provider in order to receive a diagnosis, but they are afraid that they will be misunderstood. The sensitive nature of healthcare encounters can create a power imbalance because of weight stigmatization, which affects the patient–provider relationship [
19]. The power held by a healthcare provider may affect whether or not a woman receives a diagnosis, and women with lipedema might therefore not question the decision of their healthcare provider. Furthermore, if the women perceive that they have little influence in these encounters, they may act less competent so that they receive more help and guidance [
24]. These factors could contribute to increasing the threshold for seeking help.
Although the women in our study expressed challenges in meetings with healthcare providers, they may have had sufficient coping resources to manage living with their illness. According to Antonovsky [
25], resources can include (but not be limited to) some of the following factors: material resources, knowledge and intelligence, ego identity, social support, and preventive health orientation. These coping resources may have only been available to the women in our study because they could afford to travel abroad to seek help. Furthermore, all except one woman were either working or studying, and most were in relationships that could provide them with social support, which was expressed as important when living with lipedema [
11]. The study by Melander et al. [
10] showed that only 5 out of 15 women were working, their mean age was 46.4 years, and several of the women had lived with symptoms for years prior to diagnosis. Higher age and thus more years of living with lipedema found in the latter study and in the study by Falck et al. (2022) may account for the finding that our study group seemed well functioning in terms of ability to work. A higher educational level has also been associated with a higher level of physical, social, and emotional well-being and functioning [
12]. However, although the women seemed to have access to adequate coping resources, several of them expressed that choosing what to prioritize in living with lipedema was challenging, which forced them to make tough decisions about work, social events, and family life. This highlights the importance of women receiving adequate healthcare at an early stage and that young women who present with lipedema symptoms should be taken seriously to ensure that they receive adequate healthcare.
4.2. The Importance of Social Support and the Need to Belong
The women who were in stable romantic relationships reported feeling safe and that the illness did not interfere to a great extent with the intimacy with their partner. In contrast, some of the younger women in their 20s and early 30s and those who were not in relationships expressed that it was challenging to be intimate when finding a partner and expressed a lack of self-confidence and self-esteem in situations where they had to undress in front of a potential partner, as they feared how their body would be perceived. Since self-esteem is affected by the three attributes of competence, attractiveness, and likeability, the self-esteem of an individual is related to perceptions of how one is valued by other people [
26]. Women who perceive themselves as lacking these attributes could experience lower self-esteem, which could further strengthen the feeling of not belonging or fitting in. This lack of self-esteem could make it even more challenging to approach a potential new partner. The women included in the study by Melander et al. [
10] also found it essential to have a close relationship with their partner, yet they felt that their partners did not find them attractive. The women in the latter study found it important to have social support and groups with similar experiences as themselves, which was similar to our findings. This could make the women feel less alone and provide them with information on where to search for help [
9]. However, Melander et al. [
10] found that social media platforms provide misleading information and promote a one-sided view to women with lipedema. This is comparable to our findings where some of the women expressed that social-media groups can damage the mental health of women by providing misinformation. Despite the latter finding, the women in our study found that these support groups met their need for belonging because they found other women with similar experiences to whom they were able to relate. Close social relationships are preferred since they provide a safe space, but there is evidence that simply being a part of a supportive social network can reduce stress even when the other people do not provide explicit emotional or practical assistance [
27]. A sense of belonging among women can increase their happiness and improve their ability to cope with their illness [
27]. However, the stigmatization of the illness may make it harder to feel included and valued as a member of a group or society. Because the illness often affects women during particularly vulnerable times of their lives, such as after giving birth and among women in their 20s and early 30s (as found in the present study), it could affect their self-confidence, make it difficult to create social relationships, and hinder their ability to find romantic partners.
Lipedema is accompanied by adverse appearance-related factors that could affect lifestyle changes, such as eating techniques that could lead to eating disorders and social isolation [
11]. Our findings suggest that social support has a great impact on how women with lipedema live their lives. Most of the women in our study either worked or studied, and all of them were diagnosed with lipedema and were part of a patient organization. These factors suggest that the women in our study received some degree of social support, which could have met their need to belong.
The strengths of the study are the qualitative design investigating an area of little pre-existing knowledge complemented by the rich narratives from the women included. Another strength is the inclusion of younger women in their 20s and early 30s and their views on encounters with healthcare providers and social support and belonging that have not been explored in previous research. Furthermore, we consider the sample size adequate as no new major themes came up during the last interviews. Thus, saturation was believed to be ensured on the topic of interest. To ensure credibility, both authors read the transcripts and discussed alternative interpretations and themes, clarified potential preconceptions the authors might have had before entering the study, and ensured a transparent analytical process following the steps by Brown and Clarke [
18].
The study has some limitations that are important to address. First, we have no data on the time of diagnosis or the stage or severity of the disease, and we may just assume the burden of the disease based on their age. Second, the interviews were performed via telephone, and thus body language could not be observed. However, the advantage of this approach versus face-to-face interviews could be that the women may feel more comfortable being in their private homes and thus be more willing to share their thoughts and feelings. This approach also allowed us to sample from a large geographical spread, thus including the voices of women from the whole of Norway. Lastly, due to most women having a higher level of education and being in either full-time or part-time employment, we may not generalize our results to other women with lipedema or other chronic conditions that may not have the same level of functioning.
This study highlighted the importance of belonging and social support when living with lipedema, and that young women in their 20s and early 30s are especially vulnerable. By showcasing how women with lipedema experience meetings with healthcare providers, we hope that the present study will increase the awareness of the stigma that is present and emphasize the importance of meeting women with respect and understanding. Furthermore, raising awareness about the illness may make healthcare providers diagnose it more frequently. There is clearly a need for specialized healthcare services to take care of these women in a timely and professional manner [
3]. However, healthcare providers in primary healthcare settings must be able to recognize common symptoms and refer them for diagnosis. With this focus, women with lipedema may receive help at a younger age and an earlier stage and thereby hopefully prevent years of unnecessary struggle and suffering during meetings with healthcare providers and in general life. Receiving adequate healthcare at an early stage of a disease is also of utmost importance in reducing the burden on society due to expenses associated with disability aid and medical appointments, not to mention the burden on the women themselves. There is a great need to promote the health of women, and performing research on lipedema and other illnesses that affect women can highlight the unmet needs in society and further aim to reduce inequities in the healthcare system. Future research could explore the perspectives of partners and other people close to women with lipedema in terms of their experiences of living close to these women. Furthermore, studies aimed at exploring women´s views and experiences of conservative management would be important to be able to offer treatment alternatives that are both acceptable and tolerable. Lastly, quantifying the economic burden on women living with lipedema across countries would also provide important insight into societal costs, which could identify research priorities and promote a more equitable distribution of healthcare services for women.